It's not looking good for you. The data sheet for the Cisco 9865 HDC 6 tuner HD DVR indicates that it can work with either the Contour or Contour 2 series of RF remote controls. It also says that DVRs using Contour 2 RF control do not work with any third-party remotes.
According to Universal Electronics, both the URC1160 and CLIKR-5 remote control units are infrared only devices.
Thanks you sir! Not what i was hoping for but all is good. Just today, i went out and purchased a Harmony Ultimate One with Hub and it works beautifully and setup was a breeze. Smaller in size and not a lot of button, Plus, ability to control 15 devices. Backlight is good also.